Ode To All Men

I am writing this with a deep sense of gratitude to each one of you , gentleman who have made me what I am today ! Especially to my brother , I wish to express my heartfelt appreciation . Thank you my brother ! you were my wombmate with whom I share my childhood memories and grown up dreams . how much we used to fight in our childhood ? may be we just needed an excuse for being together …. Thanks for all those fight which made me physically and emotionally strong . thank you for grooming me for the adult life .

Keep Intensely Searching For Solution

Good marriage do not just happen . they are created by dedicated efforts – effort not to find who is wrong but to find out what is wrong . to know if an issue you are moving in the right direction or not , ask yourself , is this discussion leading me to progress. Or is desired outcome only victory for my point of view and ego . let the objective of every discussion be solution and not victory . in marriage , if one can live by just two factors , let us not fix the blame but fix the problem and let the objective of every issue discussed be solution not victory one will discover automatically the best in each other

Do You Love me..?

Love is pure emotion , above al others emotions , by its sheer strength . while love may always be there expression may at times be absent . love is strength and not a weakness . love is inherent realization and not just a symbol . love is the comfort to be one’s self .the best way to feel love is to give love . love all you can love yourself and see if you ever feel a shortage . most people who feel unloved do so not because they don’t have enough people to love them , but because they don’t love enough people .

The most special person in my life

There had been many relationships I got since my childhood. I have met many interesting people and many weird personalities. I have got many neighborhood friends with whom I played when I was a kid. I mingled with many in schools and colleges, some were jocks and some were nerds. I have got many decent and professional relationships at my workplace. I have got chance to interact with many people. In such a fashion my relationship chain grew stronger in count as my days passed. But only a few are still in touch and just with a Hi-Bye relationship. Luckily I got one such relationship that was a blend of love and care and I am desperate about this bond which I should never miss in my life at any cause. Though I make many new friends and relationships in my day to day life the intimacy in our relationship can never be compared with any other relationships. The feelings were built stronger and the pain if I miss it would be too hard. The only thing I wish is that such a worthy relationship should be an everlasting one and this personality should remain as my sole mate till the end.

Buying Peace

There are times when we think this is the way things ought to be, but others feel otherwise , and we end up feeling angry or resentful when things don’t go our way . when I find something bothering me or riling me up , asking myself if it will mean anything a few years down the line helps me ride over the patch . Am running a race against time , I can tackle temporary setbacks and events that wont have a permanent bearing on the course of my life. It’s a case choosing big over small , of choosing between things that appear important over things that really matter . it helps me buy mu share of peace .you cant always give up what is for what might be , the present for the future.

Work For Success

Success demands singleness of purpose . the only way to succeed in anything is to give it everything . the road to accomplishment it is said beckons only those who can persevere and persist . Thomas Alva Edison who invented the electric blub , worked for nearly 18 hours a day . he said I never did anything worth doing by accident , nor did any of my invention come by accident , they came by work . Mahatam Gandhi worked for India’s freedom .in the process he sacrificed a lot of his personal comforts and enjoyment .one has to labour and earn anything he needs – be it knowledge or money or fame .If tou want knowledge you must toil for it.

Unforgatable New Year Eve

2008 can't be said as a good year but its also not a bad year. I got almost all in this year and now i'm ready to invite the new year 2009. Last night i went out with my friends to near by beach where almost all guys drunk like fish. But i was eating the side dishes and bird watching. Asusal we welcomed the new year wish cracker busting and cutting cakes, providing sweats. About 3 in the morning we reached home and i was damm tired, once i reach home i straight away went to bed and got up only by 1pm.